"Never forget that the first step in getting help is asking for it." Brook Noel We are not Super Woman... she had a cape. Most super-heros even have sidekicks,
Batman has Robin, SuperMan can count on
Lois Lane,
Luke Skywalker has
Yoda and Obi-One. I don't know why so many women feel the need to be SuperWoman or "do it all on their own." While it might seem that makes us more "independent," or "strong," it doesn't make a lot of sense if you step back a minute and think about it.
How many people in this world operate completely independent, capable of doing it all themselves? I can't think of a successful CEO who isn't backed by talented executives. I am unaware of a politician that isn't helped by aides or campaign managers. School have boards and churches have presidencies and axillary boards for guidance. So why do we think that we can, or should, "do it all?"
Instead of striving to "do it all" or "beating yourself up" when you can't do it all--switch to a
"team spirit" mentality. Find supportive players to be a part of your team and ask for help when you need it. Doing everything ourselves doesn't makes us "stronger," it makes us more lonely and needlessly stressed.
Even though everyone in our household is over 16 we still have chore charts and expectations of each member of our family. I needed to ask for help from my family to run the household, I realized early on I could not do it ALL alone! I believe we are a stronger family when we work together!
I have a quote hanging in my kitchen that reads:
"We may not have it all together, but together we have it ALL" If you are running on overload ask yourself: How have you tried to "do it all" in your life? What were the results? Who can be a part of your support team? Who can you ask for help?
Remember, asking for help does not make you weaker it makes you
STRONGER!